"Budbaak Beta Dheue Kabil"

Amit's quotes

"God is a comedian playing to an audience that is too afraid to laugh."— Voltaire

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This discussion was about a year back!

The earlier day I was having food in the canteen and we had a small talk about relationships. I said "All relationships are need/want dependent" and got a strong disagreement. So, started explaining my point. Which goes like this -

People tend to be in a relationship where their needs/wants
are fulfilled, this dependency bounds them with each other. This dependency can be of money, time, love, lust, availability, security and the list goes on and on. How I came to this conclusion is when i saw people suddenly changing since they have found you have nothing to offer. In a professional environment this can be understood. but, between husband-wife, father-son, brothers and sisters, this holds true. A small misunderstanding will break the relationship in such a way which can never be mended just because there is a lack of fulfillment. We see a nicely going relationship gets broken because of no reason but, we don't see the basic reason behind all that, see closely and you will find this lack of fulfillment from one partner or from both. I strongly believe in the law of Jungal

"All relationships are need dependent"...Strong words !!! but, if you can bare with me I'll explain....see any relationship between any-one and you will find a dependence between the persons in that relationship. If you are not able to see yet.....see closer. You can find there will be a dependence in terms of money, time, love, lust, availability, security, hope the list goes on....People say "True relationship" is when there is no dependence and yet you stick together. I say this is not true at all. The world doesn't work this way. And dear you are a part of this world. so, the faster you understand the less hurt you will get. In-fact one can use this to have a better relationship :) How??? will tell you later...

Life and Football

Amit's quotes

"God is a comedian playing to an audience that is too afraid to laugh."— Voltaire

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"The ball has to be kicked to score the goal"

very true in Football as well as in life. You get kicked all the time and in all possible ways, Some times they are small but controlled kicks made by your parents and friends which will position you towards the goal. Then comes some really Big Ones which if we survive lands you to the goal and these are from some very unexpected ones (They are the mid-fielders and the strikers). While you are getting kicked you feel bad about it and hope to have no more kicking (Seriously, i wanna get kicked no more, Plz for the heavens sake spare me). But when the goal is achieved we look back and feel proud about them. Almost every one has such kicking experience some way or the other, but there are a few for whom life seemed Easy (No Kicking).AND What happens if the ball is never kicked in the game of football, Yes you got it!!! you people rock \m/

So My Free Advice is to go out and get kicked as much as your behind can bare, Happy Kick-Off  ;-)

"Let me tell ya who I m"

       

         A king with no court but courage to make a stand. A warrior with no shield but a sword to swing when required. A surfer with no sail but a will to face danger. A lover with no game but follows his heart anyway. A friend you may regret but will always remember you. A frog you wish to turn into a charming prince but it ain't gonna happen. A wild rider you wish to join but by the time you make your mind he is gone.

          A seeker of truth and wisdom with a different or rather unique way of seeing things. A person who stays calm when something very bad happens to him or around him but will show you his furry even on small things cause those small things matter to him the most. Always charmed by innocence and hence, easily fooled but still appreciates the beauty of it. Will give anything just for a smile, will take anything for a drop of tear on his loved one's eyes.

          Treated well by most since treats well to most but those whom he hates are the ones who deserve it. Can easily forgive but will never forget. Once decided its decided and has a very rare chance to be changed. Can wait for ages to get some thing done. If he thinks he deserves it he will take it, no matter what!. Makes fun of himself but in a very cute way as if he don't know whats going on.

          None can buy him with anything in the world but Loyalty. Appreciates even his enemies who are brave enough to stand against and fight, not run. those who run gets nothing, not even his attention. He might seem calm but is always calculating. Give him time and he will defeat you in your game.

         And the list goes on ......!!!

"Delusion" - part1

                  I used to think "How can a person live after loosing someone he/she loved the most?" the answer used to be "No he/she can't live without her/him!" Then I looked to my grand maa Her most beloved person is not here any more and she is still living her life. One day I asked her HOW??? and the answer was "MEMORIES". The small memories they shared together and her stories were really-really cute. Then I went into some study on this particular topic myself and what I found was mind bending. Believe me it freaked me out to know that it is not the memories, not the love, not the relationship, not anything one can possibly imagine. I know it is sounding rude and pathetic but friends the truth is way-way different. Just think about this for a moment and check out your life or people around you. Ask "Why we don't kill ourselves when we lose someone we cared more than us?", "What makes us forget the pain of loosing them?", "How can a mother still live when her new born child is dead just after the birth?", "How can a lover continue his life even after losing someone he loved the most?" ... I can go on and on. But, the bottom-line is "There is something more important that all this Love, affection, care blah-blah which compels us to continue. In our head we all know it and  most of us are ignorant about it.

            Behold dear friends because here is THE WORD -> "SURVIVAL"...Yes it is the word survival of your own and you can't control it. You know!!! we are very loving, affectionate, peaceful beings but our genes are not. They have a different operating system. They are the ones who actually guide us, we just follow their machine language commands. We are no more than ROBOTS with a layer of fake intelligence which the evolution process had made on top of the basic program. And this layer was made to protect the core program running behind all this. This delusion is actually GooD for all!!! Hence, I conclude.

"पहली बारिश"

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है 

नई उमंग  नया तरंग  और खुशहाली लायी  है 

जीवन की नीरसता में फिर से बजती सहनाई है 

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है 

क्या कहना उस  यौवन  का जब पहली बूँद ने छुआ  उसे 

क्या  कहना  अपने मन  का जब ली उसने अंगराई है 

सरम - लाज  को  छोड़  आज उसने उधम मचाई है 

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है 

ऐसी बरसी आज धरा पे रुकने का कोई नाम नहीं 

जाने कितने जनमों से वो रूकती रूकती आई है 

सब्र का बांध है टुटा उसका उसपे मस्ती छाई है 

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है 

आज धरा की प्यास बुझेगी और खिलेंगे नव उपवन 

उसने भी तो इन्तेजार मैं अपनी उम्र गवाई है 

हुआ मिलन इन दोनों का और धरा मुस्काई है 

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है 

देख रहा मैं उनके मिलन को भाव मे बहता जाता हूँ 

इसी भाव में अपने मान में चार पंक्तिया आई है 

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है 

आज दिनों के बाद यहाँ फिर पहली बारिश आयी है

"हम मतलब से इठलाते हैं"

रुक जाओ जरा और देखो इधर,
हम आँख बिछये बैठे हैं,
तुम आपना मतलब देखते हो,
हम आपना मतलब देखते हैं|
मगरुरी का आलम देखो, वो समझे है कुछ और हमे,
मदहोशी का आलम ये है  के अब त़क कोई होंश नहीं |

रुक जाओ जरा और देखो इधर,
हम बाहें फैलाये  बैठे हैं,
तुम आपना मतलब देखते हो,
हम आपना मतलब देखते हैं|
कर लो जो जी में आता हो, इनको भी हम अब देखेंगे,
देखे हैं खेल खिलड़ी सब, हमने भी आपनी राहों में|

रुक जाओ जरा और देखो इधर,
हम जाल बिछये बैठे हैं,
तुम आपना मतलब देखते हो,
हम आपना मतलब देखते हैं|

परेशान तुम होते हो, जब मतलब से मतलब न निकले,
मतलब की दुनिया में मतलब का हाल यही तो होना है|

रुक जाओ जरा और देखो इधर,
हम प्यार बिछये बैठे हैं,
तुम मतलब से इतराते हो,
हम मतलब से इठलाते हैं|

"Stay RAW"

 

No Matter what! Do not loose your faith and believes.