I used to think "How can a person live after loosing someone he/she loved the most?" the answer used to be "No he/she can't live without her/him!" Then I looked to my grand maa Her most beloved person is not here any more and she is still living her life. One day I asked her HOW??? and the answer was "MEMORIES". The small memories they shared together and her stories were really-really cute. Then I went into some study on this particular topic myself and what I found was mind bending. Believe me it freaked me out to know that it is not the memories, not the love, not the relationship, not anything one can possibly imagine. I know it is sounding rude and pathetic but friends the truth is way-way different. Just think about this for a moment and check out your life or people around you. Ask "Why we don't kill ourselves when we lose someone we cared more than us?", "What makes us forget the pain of loosing them?", "How can a mother still live when her new born child is dead just after the birth?", "How can a lover continue his life even after losing someone he loved the most?" ... I can go on and on. But, the bottom-line is "There is something more important that all this Love, affection, care blah-blah which compels us to continue. In our head we all know it and most of us are ignorant about it.
Behold dear friends because here is THE WORD -> "SURVIVAL"...Yes it is the word survival of your own and you can't control it. You know!!! we are very loving, affectionate, peaceful beings but our genes are not. They have a different operating system. They are the ones who actually guide us, we just follow their machine language commands. We are no more than ROBOTS with a layer of fake intelligence which the evolution process had made on top of the basic program. And this layer was made to protect the core program running behind all this. This delusion is actually GooD for all!!! Hence, I conclude.
