This discussion was about a year back!
People tend to be in a relationship where their needs/wants
are fulfilled, this dependency bounds them with each other. This dependency can be of money, time, love, lust, availability, security and the list goes on and on. How I came to this conclusion is when i saw people suddenly changing since they have found you have nothing to offer. In a professional environment this can be understood. but, between husband-wife, father-son, brothers and sisters, this holds true. A small misunderstanding will break the relationship in such a way which can never be mended just because there is a lack of fulfillment. We see a nicely going relationship gets broken because of no reason but, we don't see the basic reason behind all that, see closely and you will find this lack of fulfillment from one partner or from both. I strongly believe in the law of Jungal
"All relationships are need dependent"...Strong words !!! but, if you can bare with me I'll explain....see any relationship between any-one and you will find a dependence between the persons in that relationship. If you are not able to see yet.....see closer. You can find there will be a dependence in terms of money, time, love, lust, availability, security, hope the list goes on....People say "True relationship" is when there is no dependence and yet you stick together. I say this is not true at all. The world doesn't work this way. And dear you are a part of this world. so, the faster you understand the less hurt you will get. In-fact one can use this to have a better relationship :) How??? will tell you later...
